I've seen many cases from my lovely friends. Each couple will have arguement in different stages. From dating to marriage, from marriage to parenthood, from parenthood to old age. Life will not be wonderful with all the chapters counted in.
King and I have a lot of sweet memories and wonderful time together during the 6 years of dating period. We finally decided to step into another chapter of marriage. Yet, it was not easy for us to accept each other parents in the beginning part, even now. And, we have to deal with our parents very carefully with full of understanding and compromising behind it to minimize hurtful feeling. I'm glad that we are still "okay" when we pop up any topic at this stage. Sometimes, we've to be decisive although our mind was clueless.
No doubt, we will face more different issues when we are parents in the future, especially more parties (new family member, in-laws, relatives, etc) get involved. How to take care of the little one, whose method is useful, which school the kid should go to, you name it.
I was told by friends: Life is full of chapters. It's wonderful and incredible if we read through our whole life by chapters - from a baby to a kid, from a kid to a teenager, from a teenager to a youngster, from a youngster to an adult, from an adult to a married person, from a married person to a parent, from a parent to a grandparent, etc.... Life goes on and on. And we learn from our lessons with joy and tears. Well, with a healthy body and mindset, it will be worth while to go on and on. :) Life has to be balanced well!
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